When something goes wrong in your life, what do you focus on? What you did wrong? What they did wrong? What is wrong? That’s what most of us do…sadly! Because there is only limited value in looking at what went wrong. Yes, you can find a mistake and fix it. But mostly we find a mistake, blame, regret, feel guilty, complain, and use it as a stick to beat either ourselves or the other poor sap that was involved.
Situation worse! It’s interesting isn’t it that this is our default position – from governments to households – where did it all go wrong? And what happens? Does the situation improve? Usually not because we are far too busy apportioning blame, criticising and moaning about how it shouldn’t happen. None of which improve the situation.
Here’s a slightly different approach to try. Look at what’s ‘wrong’ in your life, and decide how you want it to be. Now take action to make it ‘right’. Trust me, this simple change of perspective will improve a situation 1000 times more than blaming, criticising and complaining.
Love
Donna.x