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  • Look to Your Source, Not to Your Spouse

    All the things you look to the outside world for – approval, guidance, love, validation – your source has in greater abundance than another person could ever have. Stop asking other people to give you what they themselves are lacking, and tap in to the vast resource of love and joy in your existence your…

  • OnTheBeach – How Not to Motivate Me

    I am really easy not to motivate – all you have to do is tell me I ‘have to’ do something and instantly I am demotivated. To make me even less motivated, tell me I’m lazy, stupid, need to buckle down, am at fault for everything wrong with my life and a total loser. Make…

  • The Optimist’s Creed – Video

    I have just loved this poem so much, that I wanted to record it on video so as well as reading it, you could listen to it. I am reading it to myself every day, and doing my best to keep these promises – they’re a great recipe for a good life! The Optimist’s Creed…

  • Dream Big

    If you could change the world, what would you change? What would you have happen? Can you make that change within yourself? Can you help one other person make that change? And another? Every single person can make a big difference – start with a big dream, then start taking small steps – and just…

  • OnTheBeach – Coming To Play?

    Something to play with For everything you are doing this week, tell yourself or your partner that you are ‘going out to play’, and see how much of a difference this makes to each task. Coming to play? I read something brilliant recently about a little girl who says to her auntie ‘I’m going to…

  • Discovering Your Strengths

    I’ve recently been reading “Authentic Happiness” by Martin Seligman. It’s an interesting book, but not necessarily one I would recommend, because I’m not finding it easy to read!! The style is slightly too academic for me, and can sometimes be hard going for that. However, I do have to recommend the website – www.authentichappiness.org –…

  • Feeling Good

    If you knew that nothing was more important than that you felt good, what would change today in your life? Can you make that change, because nothing is more important than that you feel good. This isn’t selfishness – imagine the impact on your husband, children, colleagues and friends if you are feeling good, full…

  • You Can Heal Your Life DVD – Recommended

    This DVD is one of my favourite examples of the law of attraction at work – after finding out my friend was battling cancer again, I decided to give her my copy of You Can Heal Your Life DVD. I also ordered another copy for myself, because I love this DVD. After a mix up…

  • OnTheBeach – Start As You Mean To Go On

    Start As You Mean to Go On I woke up this year optimistic, feeling that life is brimming with possibilities, looking forward to the future and bubbling with ideas. I am looking forward to 2009. Louise Hay (see this month’s recommendation) says that we should make the decision every year that THIS year will be…

  • What Can You Give?

    This week I have been asking what your theme will be for this year, what you want for this year, today I want to ask what you will give? My theme for 2009 is service – giving to the world. People who know me and check out my website for the first time are often…