Category: Articles
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Don’t Let What You Want Overshadow What You Have
I’m a Big Dreamer – I love to daydream and imagine and create in my imagination…which sometimes leads to creation in real life too. All invention is born in the mind and all that. But there’s something we do when we imagineer our future – set goals, create wonderful visions, decide on Big Dreams…we use…
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Self-Love and The Longest Winter
It’s been a bloody long winter here in the UK. We don’t normally get bad winters here – we usually get a cold snap, but also some mild months. This year it’s been fecking cold all the way through…and another cold ‘snap’ is settling in now, bringing snow and brass monkey temperatures. You may have…
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Love yourself even though…
Happy Valentine’s Day! It’s the perfect day to talk about love… But you know me, I’m far more interested in SELF-LOVE. Because self-love doesn’t depend on the moods, whims and actions of someone else. While it is wonderful to be loved by your partner, your friends, your family, the more you love yourself, the more…
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What are you taking for granted?
As I write this, I am sat in bed on New Years Day, watching Despicable Me 2 and utterly full of cold. It is amazing how much you appreciate breathing through your nose when you cannot. It’s actually a very good reminder for the new year – to appreciate what we all take for granted.…
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Have you done your yearly planning yet?
Have you done your planning for the year ahead yet? Have you set your goals and intentions for this year? No? Ah well, too late now init? Of course not. Your life planning can happen any time. New moon is a fabuolous time to set intentions. Chinese New Year comes 3-6 weeks after 1st Jan…
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My Wish for you in 2018
In 2018, I wish for you to fall head over heels in love with your life. I wish for you to be happy and healthy and full of joie de vivre. I wish for you to know how loved you are. I wish for you to release that thing that’s always held you back. I…
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Obstacle Busting: Obstacles are good for you
They look like they’re there just to cause you trouble, but these problems, issues, roadblocks, obstacles all exist to HELP you. They come up so that they can be dealt with. Once they’re dealt with, you can move on with less baggage, less mess and more spring in your step. Big Dreams and amazing lives…
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Obstacle Busting: Beliefs that Undermine You
Everyone has some of these – beliefs that undermine what you want to do and cause you to hesitate, stop and turn back when you want to move forward. You need to excavate and mine for yours and get rid of them. For example “people like me don’t get to have or do X”. I…
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Obstacle Busting: No Money
This is another obstacle that is so common it’s almost a cliché. For many of my clients, it’s their go to obstacle – the first thing that gets in the way of anything and everything they want. So because they need the money and they don’t have it, that’s the end of their dreams. Only…
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Obstacle Busting: Worrying
“Confront obstacles as they appear, don’t waste energy fearing what you may meet in the future.” Isabelle Allende This quote leapt out at me the first time I read The Kingdom of the Golden Dragon. I am a recovering worry-holic. I know it’s a complete waste of time, as most of the things I worry…