I’ve been thinking about doing something for a while now – an oppotunity that I like the sound of, and have put off before for a few months. Then a new opportunity presented itself to me today, which is not as convenient, not as clear-cut as the other…but I find myself pondering ways I can rearrange my schedule so that I CAN take advantage of this. Which reminded me of a rule I (usually) live my life by:
If it’s not a definite ‘yes’, then it’s a no for now
See, we often berate ourselves for not doing something we ‘should’ do…but the truth is that if it was a definite ‘yes’, we would do it. So rather than wasting time umming and ahing over decisions you are not 100% certain of, live your life by this rule. If it’s not a definite yes, then it’s a no for now. Tomorrow your decision may be a definite yes. But for today if it’s not a definite yes, then it’s a no for now.
Imagine how much time we would save by not dithering, mithering, worrying, obsessing over our decisions if we lived by that simple rule.
Love
Donna.x