Tag: blame
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OnTheBeach: Stop Thinking It’s You
Have you ever had this experience? You find a new ‘system’ for success/making money/time management/dieting or whatever…and you try it and it doesn’t work? So you perhaps try again and it still doesn’t work. So you blame yourself for being lazy, good for nothing, stupid, having no willpower, being in the wrong somehow and everyhow.…
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Podcast: Celebration and Your Big Dream
All too often we don’t honour ourselves, recognise ourselves or celebrate our little steps towards our big dreams. Why celebrate? To achieve your big dreams you will need all the encouragement and support you can get. It’s time to stop holding ourselves back with criticism, blame and negativity and start cheering ourselves on with celebration,…
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Don’t Curse the Dark, Light a Lamp
Today while working on my daily October practice of Laughter, I came across a video from Dr Madan Kataria, the founder of Laughter Yoga, in which he talked about the ancient Indian wisdom which says ‘don’t curse the dark, light a lamp’. Most of us have a tendency to curse the dark, to complain about…
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Where Did It All Go Wrong?
When something goes wrong in your life, what do you focus on? What you did wrong? What they did wrong? What is wrong? That’s what most of us do…sadly! Because there is only limited value in looking at what went wrong. Yes, you can find a mistake and fix it. But mostly we find a…